Gossip is defined as many things in the dictionary, a person who habitually reveals personal or sensational facts about others; a report or rumor of an intimate nature; chatty talk; light and informal conversation designed for a social situation; a malicious report about someones personal life; or it can even be the term for a friend.

Usually when one is said to gossip, it is said to be a bad thing. However, when you really think about it, gossip is a simple exchange of information. Everyone gossips, and those who say they don't are either idiots, or liars. I gossip, you gossip, they gossip. The poor, the rich, the deeply religious, and the morally...lacking all gossip. The difference between them all is the intent and accuracy.

Gossip can sometimes be constructive and a way to almost keep in touch, or at least keep informed about the people you may care about. Yes, often if not most of the time, it's inaccurate and malicious as well, but I think that people who don't realize that much of it is not.

Gossip is one of those words that has developed negative connotations, much like the word propaganda, but so much gossip can prevent awkward or hurtful situations. It's a form of entertainment; builds a sense of community; re-inforces moral boundaries; creates accountability; it's a good indication of public opinion and can be used for political resistance or crush it quickly. Gossip also provides a mating tool and can build someone up or tear them down.

My experience with gossip has been just fine. I haven't often been the subject of it in a negative way that I know of. Oh sure, there are a few incidents I remember and I am sure there are many I don't know about, but they just made me stronger. Now I am less likely to get upset because I am prepared and so I either laugh it off or on the rare occasion, I correct it.

It's not going to go away and it shouldn't, at least not completely, so people need to accept it. Move on with your lives and your gossiping. Gossip, positive or negative can be the cement to a friendship.

Gossip sucks sometimes, but thats not going to stop you from passing it on, is it?